Female orgasm difficulties may be more common than you think. How sexually satisfied are you?
Are women having orgasms in bed? Men seem to think so. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 85 percent of men believe their partner climaxed during their most recent love-making session. If that's the case, women everywhere deserve a shot at an Oscars for their in-bed acting abilities.Because, according to the very same NSSHB study cited above, only 64 percent of women reported reaching orgasm during their most recent sexual event—which means that the other 21 percent are most likely faking it. What's more, an online survey over at SkinnyScoop.com reveals that a whopping 80 percent of women would prefer a massage to sex with their partner. This doesn't seem all that shocking to me. On most days, I'd prefer a box of Cheez-its to another round of unsatisfying sex.
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Are women having orgasms in bed? Men seem to think so. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, conducted by the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, 85 percent of men believe their partner climaxed during their most recent love-making session.
If that's the case, women everywhere deserve a shot at an Oscars for their in-bed acting abilities. Because, according to the very same NSSHB study cited above, only 64 percent of women reported reaching orgasm during their most recent sexual event—which means that the other 21 percent are most likely faking it. (Some men might have been with other men during their most recent sexual encounter, but according to the researchers the discrepancy is too large for that to be the only reason.)
What's more, an online survey over at SkinnyScoop.com reveals that a whopping 80 percent of women would prefer a massage to sex with their partner.
This doesn't seem all that shocking to me. On most days, I'd prefer a box of Cheez-its to another round of unsatisfying sex.
Why? In the 11 years since I first became sexually active, I have never experienced an orgasm during intercourse.
Not to say that I've never experienced an orgasm. One ex-boyfriend had magical fingers. One particularly bumpy bus ride brought me to a surprise climax. And my clitoris is having an intense love affair with my vibrator.
But an orgasm from intercourse alone? It's never happened. Bringing Sexy Back: 5 Ways To Increase Female Libido In Marriage
And a sexual history like mine isn't as rare as you'd think.
A sex without orgasm isn’t a pleasurable experience. Always remember that those who can orgasm can have a better sex. Inability to orgasm can make your sex life worst. One of the best way to please your women in bed that I personally know is to apply the edible chocolate paint to her body. Basically, the cocoa is a sensuous ingredient which stimulate our body & encourages sexual feeling. No feeling is better than tasting the chocolate directly from your partner’s naked body. It will help her orgasm & meanwhile you can masturbate her to keep her energized.
If you have problems with your stamina…
Finally, we women do understand that some men have issues with how long they last for during sex. This is another vital area you should communicate about if you want to learn how to please a woman in bed.
There is nothing worse than a man who comes in a short time but refuses to acknowledge it as an issue when it happens repeatedly. But if we really like you, then we will be open to talking to you about it and working on it together.
If you regularly come before either you or your partner want you to, then you need to work on this.
You can still learn to make a girl happy in bed, but it will require some effort on your part if you have issues with this. So don’t bury your head in the sand when there is plenty you can do about it.
You can have a look at our advice about how to last longer in bed for some great ideas for improving your sexual stamina.